Forgiveness...
A quality of a human, a prayer to god, a way to love by motherhood. A way to get rid of all the miseries and sorrows. To have a strong relationship. To be happy always.
How does this forgiveness completes? Is there any process of doing it? What are the steps ?
When I seek the apology, the forgiveness, it means I have done it wrongly. It may be intentionally or unintentionally. The acceptance of something happened wrong, taking the responsibility of the same. A promise of "I do not repeat". Facing the fears from the front. An act of boldness, not of proud.
Giving right to the other whether he accepts it or not. It's a seeking mode. The request, not a demand or an order. It carry the humbleness The submissiveness. But do we ask the "Sorry " with the same feelings and promise.
When somebody requests you to forgive him. It is your duty to forgive the other person. Whether he does carry the above qualities or not. The person who forgive is always at the upper hand. The giver is always at high altitude having high attitude. Having the emotions to lift the other up, not your own ego. Forgiving is incomplete without forgetting. One should not repeat the event or anything of it to anyone, including himself. The forgiveness without forgetting is fake and incomplete. It's illusion to self.
When you accept others with such forgiveness and seek it from others in such a manner, its winning - winning together.
A quality of a human, a prayer to god, a way to love by motherhood. A way to get rid of all the miseries and sorrows. To have a strong relationship. To be happy always.
How does this forgiveness completes? Is there any process of doing it? What are the steps ?
When I seek the apology, the forgiveness, it means I have done it wrongly. It may be intentionally or unintentionally. The acceptance of something happened wrong, taking the responsibility of the same. A promise of "I do not repeat". Facing the fears from the front. An act of boldness, not of proud.
Giving right to the other whether he accepts it or not. It's a seeking mode. The request, not a demand or an order. It carry the humbleness The submissiveness. But do we ask the "Sorry " with the same feelings and promise.
When somebody requests you to forgive him. It is your duty to forgive the other person. Whether he does carry the above qualities or not. The person who forgive is always at the upper hand. The giver is always at high altitude having high attitude. Having the emotions to lift the other up, not your own ego. Forgiving is incomplete without forgetting. One should not repeat the event or anything of it to anyone, including himself. The forgiveness without forgetting is fake and incomplete. It's illusion to self.
When you accept others with such forgiveness and seek it from others in such a manner, its winning - winning together.
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