Monday, June 29, 2009

A Child

The mother of emotions, innocence, nature, relations, life, trust and so on… A feeling of being a family. A feeling of pride of being a creator. The creator of a life. A blessing of God. The incarnation of God in your family. The good wishes of many. A plain canvas, an opportunity to draw an image of future

This is the Child. A full of festivals. The beginning of new relations. A chance to celebrate the life again. To forgive the past, a chance to welcome the future. A ray of new hopes.

This is the time of responsibilities also. A responsibility of a farmer. A responsibility of a mentor. To de learn all; start learning again with the child. To call upon your memories. An opportunity to search your childhood. To pay regards to your parents. A chance to understand what they have given all our life. To understand the sacrifice. To enjoy the fun. To live with smiles. To be in arms. To love for the sake of loving only.

This is what we get when we bless with a child in our family. Something incomplete gets filled with. The feeling of completeness. With the thought of a child the rainbow of feelings come on the sky of our life. It’s too colourful to express the colours of nature.

Life is really calling for our abilities now. This is the first test taken by the nature from us. She is asking about the learning and alerting for the begining of another phase of our life.

When I try to see a lens image, I found myself standing at the balance of career and family. At one side the earnings were calling for me and from another my family, my loved ones. I try to get some more hours in a day. I succeeded. But, money and other a like have snatched that time also. I have started living two lives, one the real and another of justifications.

I decide, no more justifications, please.

The responsibility of my child is mine. It’s jointly and severely with my wife.

The smile of my family, smile of my child is my best winning. The winning together

Friday, June 26, 2009

An Artist

To Develop a Nation the need for character building is more important than that of any other education. The overall development of a child is not in books and theories but in the practical aspect of the learning. The test is only the purity of his thought and reason for doing any particular act. The synchronization in the thoughts and longevity of them.

Meanings and Synonyms are taking a 360degree change now days. The certificate is taken as qualification; the job is taken only from package with zero loyalty. We are running towards the western countries blindly, not learning from their results and acknowledging their efforts and social system. The politics is more a seat battle than building a nation.

Something is missed somewhere.

The seed is somewhere in history and purely with the development of a child. Something is missing in the primary education of the child. May be earlier where parent leave their 0-3 years child with somebody else or don’t have time. Somewhere we find it difficult to get the middle and higher students practice the right habits. Somewhere we are making employee and managers instead a leader and entrepreneur.

Somewhere a woman, the only mother to humanity, is developing like flood, not as a river. She is running fast to achieve the shoulders than from the heart and head. Somewhere a feeling of respect and family is diminishing in the cloak of freedom, equality and recognition.

A definite mistake of man somewhere had led the society to present position. Somewhere he had used the women as commodity. Today is feeling fearsome and incompetent to her. “Every successful man has a woman behind” was repeated many times but missed to understand. Somewhere failed to protect her or earn livings for family. Failed to give her proper attention and respect.

Somewhere passing age missed to handover the legacy of their experience to present and future. They missed to encourage the reasoning power. They missed to encourage them for experiments and innovation, with protecting them by their presence only.

Somewhere ethics, relations, emotions and humanity having started fading their colour for money and money bought things. We forget that the sleepers we keep outside the house, in society, are always taken back to home by our children.

The picture of future is looking really scary. But still have many fresh canvases. Many brushes can still loose their colour or can be dip to new colours.

The affirmation says, “I am the only artist who will paint the beautiful image of future. I will use the brush of my habits and colours of my thoughts to make it the most beautiful painting, ever.”

I will make my win, the win of Nation and Society, means Winning Together.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Emotions and winning together

Think of a stage where you have been awarded and there were a lot of cheer up for you, but you don’t recognize any face there.

You are walking on a crowded road and slipped, there is no one who can give you a hand.

Your heart is full of emotions but no one to hear or call upon.

You are in tears and no one to see them.

You were eating and nobody to offer you a glass of water. You have cooked first time and nobody to taste it

You have won a marathon, nobody there to wave you hands.

You were to a party and nobody there welcomes you. Nobody ask you why you were there.

You are in hospital or bed ridden and nobody there to visit for your health.

Life exists in relations and lovable touch. The most precious gift given to the living beings by the God. It’s free for all. You can give it in plenty. You can expect it in plenty. Create a strong emotional account. It increases with giving more.

In you routing life there must be some people in addition to your family, who have right upon you. You have the right to be corrected by them. To ask for the guidance. To have the ointment on your wound at your fall. Your eyes can see towards some faces, when you were on stage, have been awarded. Your lips looking for some ears to whisper.

There must be someone whose voice can be recognized by your ears when you will be wrong, you will be on wrong side. Some hands to pull you, when your path doesn’t have your destination.

When your dictionary misses the word I because you always feel we. More you have more you confident. It is not about interference or dependency it’s like a huge roof with many invisible pillars, a sky over the earth. A safety net with many threads. And all created by you.

Rights are the unlimited responsibility on the shoulders of others. It says that I am yours. It’s me who controls all by giving the control in the hands of others. It’s unconditional love with people, trust so much that other can destroy but have faith they don’t.

The emotions are always strength. They are blessing of God when in purest of form. They don’t walk along with a week person. They look for the heart like Gandhi ji to be kept in.

May God bless you with this strength to win yourself internally and world externally!

This would be a win of worth, win in life and after it. This is winning together.